Having been involved in hostess bars for over 8 years now I find that question quite hard to answer as each hostess bar has it's own attractions. Sometime you might feel like some good music and a pretty young woman to flirt with and sometimes you might something a more visceral expereince. Some men prefer more professional hostesses and some prefer less professional. Generally every bar has atleast one girl that you might be attracted to, the problem is finding them.
So to try to make things easier here's my list, in no particular order, of the more popular hostess bars.
On 104 Street these are the bars I'd recommend. If you get hungry while you're there please order some food from the Cavern Pub as it helps pay the bills.